In a newspaper article on why there’s
a need for a writers’ forum like ours, I was quoted as saying,
“Non-writers don’t understand.” My husband blanched when he
read that. “It makes you sound kind of snotty.” Then it was I
who blanched at his comment, but only because he was right. Though it
wasn’t my intention at all, I now worried that readers would
interpret the remark to mean that I considered non-writers incapable
of processing the deep and complex concepts that writers deal with.
What I was actually trying to say was that non-writers simply don’t
care.
Anyone with a hobby knows on some level
that it just doesn't interest other people on the same level. If it
did, they’d be participating in it too. I try to listen politely
when my violist friend expounds on performing folk versus classical
music; likewise with a crafter friend who extols the virtues of 2-ply
versus 3-ply sewing floss. But I just can’t get excited about those
things as they do.
In the same way, when writers lament
an exposition that’s just not getting off the ground, or a
character who won’t adhere to our plot line, most people’s eyes
glaze over. But these topics keep writers talking and keep us
writing.
This very entry is a case in point. I'm
writing it as part of an event called “Write Across Nebraska,” in
which writers all over the state commit to writing over the weekend.
They turn in a word count and the Nebraska Writers Guild tallies the
total. It’s all done online and all based on the honor system.
After pounding out a thousand words or more, the writer receives
nothing more valuable than a certificate stating that they reached
their word-count goal. I can see most of my non-writer friends
shrugging their shoulders and saying, “What’s the point?”
At the risk of sounding sacrilegious,
that’s a little like asking, “What’s the point of going to
church? Can’t you pray by yourself? Can’t you read the Bible (or
the Koran, the Talmud) at home?” Yes, you can, and yes, you should
if you want a rich spiritual life. But there’s something about
being in the presence of like-minded people, even if you’re not
talking about your common interests, even if you’re not talking at
all. It helps just to know they’re out there.
I arranged for local writers to meet at
the public library for the event, and it made a real difference for
me. Had I been home and on my own, it would have been too easy to
quit. Midway through the day, I did wind up alone for a time, and was
about to pack it in. Then a couple fellow writers showed up, and I
got a second wind.
Realizing that at this moment there
are others laboring toward a goal like your own makes you more
committed to your task, it inspires you to keep on track, and brings
you closer to your destination. And by the way, I surpassed that
1,000 word goal, coming in with a grand total of 1798. It was a good
day.
I'm glad to hear it went well. I wish I could have joined you folks at the library Saturday.
ReplyDeleteTHIS, exactly!
ReplyDeleteWe're all nerds about something in this world, and it's lonely out here unless we find other nerds to share our joy. (I mean "nerd" in the most positive way possible.) Even if we're scattered all over the state and all doing our own thing, knowing that there are at least forty-some-odd other people getting all worked up about having come up with the most perfect turn of a phrase, or finally letting that character take her own lead, or describing a plot twist in a way that surprises even *you*....well, the world feels just a little less big, and you feel just a little less abnormal. :D
So glad to "meet" you this weekend!